Inlaws - schmimlaws

I can really feel the frustration some people have with thier inlaws. Some people are lucky enough to have inlaws that are fabulous, helpful, and kind. Others treat you like you are lucifer himself and could care less about you.

I used to have problems with my inlaws, and seeing that Jeremy and I are seperated, I figured those problems would subside. Heh.

Jeremy's parents are divorced and they have been since he was like, 2. His Mom ran away from her family to live the life she was not allowed to while growing up. Wearing whatever clothes she wanted, partying, etc. His Dad caught his Mom in bed with his best friend. Thing between them have thus been very rocky for the past 24 years. Even though they've been divorced that long. Jeremy's Dad & his side of the family is very gossipy. LOVE talking shit. Jerem's Mom side of the family (and this goes somewhat for his Dad's too) is VERY, (I mean VERY) religious. When his Mom found out that Jeremy left, she came to ME. . . prompting & suggesting me to attempt to save the marriage. Huh?

I'm VERY weary of his family. Jeremy's Dad recently told Jeremy that I have been getting all "dolled up" and going out at night, and staying the night at people's homes. They also told him that they think something is going on between Jeremy's best friend and I. Dear Lord, have mercy on these poor bored souls. . . for they have nothing better to do than meddle in others lives.

First of all, I'm no saint, but I'm no whore either. I'm still married, duh, so you think I'm going start dating & staying the night out? Ha. Obviously, the do NOT know me one bit. Secondly, Uhm, are they following me or what? Why would you tell someone something you 'think' someone else is doing without actual concrete proof. Grow the fuck up! I do not give in to thier shit. I simply reprimand them for it, by not EVER taking thier phone calls, & not allowing them to see Zoey unless she's with her Daddy. As cruel as it might sound, by law, Grandparents have NO rights. Period.

And my thoughts are they need to be sweeping under thier own porch before attempting to clean under mine. In the beginning of Jeremy and I's separation, the constantly contacted me, wanting to know if we were going to go to counseling, wanting to know what *I* was doing about the whole thing. So, I told them! I'm moving on! It's obvious this all happened for a reason, I wasn't happy, he moved out, thus. . . I have no choice but to keep on going. For the sake of my daughter, and myself.

They ignored that, said they didn't believe me, and kept pestering me. Caring? Yes, however, if I tell you that I'm doing OK, then I'm doing OK. Period. I haven't heard from them in 2 months.

Bleh. I don't let them get to me. (or at least I don't let them think they're getting to me) I'd love an apology for all the devious things they've done to me or the false accusations they've told Jeremy about me. Think I'll ever get it? Ha. Until then. . . they too can kiss my ass.

Ugh. . . . I'm bored